Nothing is more frustrating than matching with an attractive girl on Tinder, excitedly sending her a message, and then facing eternal radio silence.You know you’re no Shakespeare, but your message sure seemed decent enough to get a mutual match to respond. Simple: You’re failing to trigger an emotional response that makes her want to write you back.Here’s a new article which I wrote as a special to Yahoo! And while I never write emails for others, the request makes perfect sense. ———————————————————— Of all the things that clients (especially men) ask me to help them with, the most common query involves assistance with writing introductory emails.90% of profiles feature the same cliche phrases like: "I'm a hard-working guy who is looking for a nice girl." "I enjoy hanging out with my friends." "I'm an easy-going, fun person." DON’T DO THIS!Although there's nothing inherently wrong with these sentences, you should avoid using them if possible, since so many other people have them on their profile.
And if you read carefully, you’ll be able to double your response rate and even create epic Tinder conversation starters of your own.Well, you can start by remembering these three basic rules: It’s not that “You’ve got a great smile, let’s go out sometime” is a bad opener. I read your profile and thought it was really amazing. So please look at my profile and if you like what I had to say, write back to me when you get a chance. If you’re too complimentary in that initial email, you can come off as desperate and needy. Still, the question remains: how do you say something original and flirty?Yours, Evan Every line of this message can be thrown out. Because anyone whom you contact knows by virtue of you writing to them that a) you liked their profile, b) you liked their photo and c) you’d like a reply. That, my friends, is what separates the most successful online daters from the rest of the pack. In this case, I’ve written them for men replying to women, but the steps are applicable to everyone: Every word of it.Getting more quality dates with the women you want to meet comes down to optimizing your profile and messages to the largest degree possible.What you need are some extremely effective lines that you can cut and paste to different women on Tinder.